You have a knot in the pit of your stomach and an unbearable pain in your chest. You wake up in the middle of the night thinking about your ex, an endless mind chatter bombards your head and you imagine what you could have said to save the relationship and what you would say if/when you see your ex again. Finally you wake up and you dread the day ahead, you even feel anxious. Not even in the shower can you stop thinking about your ex and throughout the day every single thing reminds you of your ex: songs, movies, streets, pictures, restaurants and worse of all your every room in your house seems to have scenes of both of you playing constantly. You keep checking your phone to see if there are any messages, you don’t know what you are expecting but you are expecting something. You keep trying to figure out what really went wrong as you stare at the almost full and cold plate of food in front of you.
Your heart has been broken and it hurts like hell. You want it to stop, but no matter what you do you can’t seem to stop the pain or thoughts. Why does it hurt so much? You have created an entire world that involved your ex: friends and family, social events, business plan and even dreams like buying a house, having children and traveling to exotic places. But now all of that is gone and not only do you feel you lost a love but you feel like you lost your soulmate, a lifestyle, your dreams and even yourself. Now you are worrying about the future and you feel like the pain will never end.
I know exactly how it feels, I have been there. In 2005 I experienced a heartbreak that I thought I would never be able to recover from despite all the things I was doing to get rid of the pain. Once I stopped numbing myself through watching t.v. and drinking alcohol I signed up for 3 months of yoga classes. Religiously I did yoga everyday to ease the pain, I made a new circle of friends and even started dating someone I met in yoga class. But the pain was still there and this new relationship could not fill that void, needless to say the relationship didn’t go anywhere. Now I was focusing on what actually was wrong with my previous relationship and trying to convince myself how I was better off without her, but my heart did not agree with my mind. I was desperate and the self-help books that I read didn’t bring me the answers or the healing I so much needed.
Little did I know that when someone experiences a broken heart what actually happens is that the soul becomes fractured and whatever thought the person is having in that moment (i.e. “I will never fully love again”, “I will never trust anyone else with my heart”, “I don’t deserve love” or “love hurts, love is pain.”) becomes a self-created identity. The soul fragment is energized by the discordant thought form(s) and emotions of heartbreak and becomes ingrained in your subconscious mind and field of energy. Now you are projecting this thought onto your outer reality and the frequency of the soul fragment you created during the heartbreak attracts you to people, places, times, things and events of similar frequency.
I finally understood why I kept attracting relationships where eventually I experienced another heartbreak, abandonment and/or rejection. Because of my past painful heartbreak experience and the thoughts I had identified with I would enter other relationships thinking “I must be careful to open my heart, I could be hurt again” and obviously this became a self-fulfilling prophecy. With each relationship it got worse; my fear of experiencing yet another heartbreak and the pain that comes with it was preventing me from fully opening my heart, give and receive love and fully trusting my new partner. Finally my intuition guided me to a specific energy healing technique where I was able to connect directly to my Higher Self and clear the SOURCE of my heartbreak and the negative thought forms related to it. In just one session I cleared energetically all the past events of heart break and rejection, I felt a massive magnetic like field being released from my heart and I felt so much lighter. But the best part was that effortlessly and organically I was embodying a new mindset and state of being, for the first time I felt READY to be in a relationship and not just any relationship but the ONE relationship I had always longed for. I did a manifestation to meet my twin flame and in less than a week I was guided to the exact place where I would meet her. The crazy thing is that I knew beforehand I would meet her and when I saw her I recognized her, played it cool and watched as my manifestation unfolded perfectly. We talked, exchanged numbers and little over a week after we went out on our first date. Three years later and now I am engaged, even more in love with her and enjoying the best relationship I could ever have dreamed of.
If you have recently experienced a heartbreak or you have been scared by previous heartbreaks that are now preventing you from completely opening your heart, fully trusting another person and attracting the conscious, fun, loving and passionate relationship you desire then you must energetically clear the source of this. I guarantee you that in just one session you will be able to heal what otherwise would take a months or even years of traditional help.
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Gustavo I must admit I was a bit skeptical, but I was so desperate and something within me told me this could work. I was trying to contain my tears throughout the session but as I was crying I felt different, somehow the tears had a feeling of letting go and joy (if that makes any sense). When you asked me when was my first heartbreak I was surprised how I suddenly remembered an event that had to do with my father when I was only 5 years old. I thought my first heartbreak was during my first relationship in college, not with my dad. I was so glad when you did a clearing on that. Really, all I can say is WOW…that heartbreak had influenced my future relationships with men. Anyways it’s been five days and I feel so at peace, even stronger. He still comes to mind but not with the same emotion. I have been doing the exercises you recommended and today I found myself walking back from the grocery store smiling and giving thanks to the universe. I felt alive and it’s been a while since I have felt like that, like me. You mentioned that it was time that I made myself the number one priority and that I had to focus on the relationship with myself…it feels like I am rediscovering myself and I love it.
Thank you so much,
I hope one day I can meet you in person and give you a big hug and firm handshake. I can’t believe how my thoughts have shifted from having so much negative thoughts about ______ to having compassion for her. The most amazing thing is that I genuinely feel glad the relationship is over. When I look back is like I am seeing another person in my body acting out a very sad story. It’s weird I feel detached from my past self and at the same time I feel compassionate towards that past version of me. It seems like the biggest message I am getting is compassion and forgiveness. I also noticed that I am breathing with more ease, before I felt like something was compressing my chest and I couldn’t take deep breaths. I thought it would take me a couple more months to really be in this place I am right now, I was even thinking of going to Peru and doing Ayahuasca to heal this 🙂
Could you please send me the link for the session again? Thanks and talk soon,
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